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Obsidian Blackbird.'s avatar

when does your book come out ?

I Can Only Give You Everything's avatar

Man, I’m working on my second book now . Hopefully I’ll find a publisher soon for I Can Only… who can help it get to press , waiting , waiting …. Pray it won’t be too much longer.

How is your book going ? Doing any readings ? Public events or podcasts? I’m reading it right now, it’s great . Can’t wait till summer break from teaching work to fully get into it.

Obsidian Blackbird.'s avatar

Books sells well… through amazon and barnes and Nobel and Ingram spark… Ive made about 2000$ - thats 300 copies or so…

I sell mostly through promoting on substack.

Have done no readings, ive done two podcasts etc. Havent looked into it really - but when my work slows down Ill hit it again :) -

I Can Only Give You Everything's avatar

Awesome man that’s great ! I heard that for a first book selling 2-3k is supposed to be really good so your well on your way.

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yeah :) :)

Dr. Nicole Mirkin's avatar

The way you move from the chaos of the scene to that final circle of women is striking. The contrast between chasing connection through desire and finding it in shared recovery gives the ending real weight. Connie’s line about putting yourself on your own amends list adds a layer that lingers. That last image of sitting in the circle feels like the first real homecoming.

I Can Only Give You Everything's avatar

Thank you! The Circle is an excerpt from a book I have been trying to get published now since August. That is such encouraging feedback.

Summer of Men's avatar

Such a powerful piece bringing me right back to what it was like

I Can Only Give You Everything's avatar

The rawness of early sobriety is unforgettable.

Helen's avatar

🫶

Howard Salmon's avatar

This stayed with me. The way you trace the same circle through punk shows, addiction, intimacy, and recovery is devastating and honest in the best way. There’s no performative catharsis here—just clarity, restraint, and real courage on the page.

I Can Only Give You Everything's avatar

Thanks, Howard. It was hard to write this one, I’m glad you found meaning in it. This feedback was really touching.

Jessie Lynn McMains's avatar

Fuck, this one hit like a punch to the gut. 🖤 I too used to have a lot of one night stands and flings that I didn’t even really want all that much because I thought I could find what I was looking for in the arms of others. Excellent writing. Thank you.

I Can Only Give You Everything's avatar

I’m glad you found it relatable. It was hard to write this as it is so honest. But figured other women would appreciate it and find it cathartic .